Wedding Feature: Shannon & Jared

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Shannon & Jared were married in June in northern Michigan

Their Story
We first officially met in Algebra II class at Charlevoix High School. Jared was a junior and I (Shannon), was a sophomore. Jared had just moved/transferred to Charlevoix from nearby Wolverine, MI. He sat in front of me in class, and along with several of our other classmates, we often worked together to complete our daily algebra assignments. Though we did not start dating until 3 years later when we were in college, I was instantly intrigued by his ability to make me smile and laugh – an attribute of his that continues to make me fall more in love with him every single day. It is possible that we may have crossed paths during a summer Wolverine Basketball Camp during our middle school days, but the first official introduction occurred in this Charlevoix math class. Dibble Collage3

The Proposal
Jared had quite an intricate, surprising proposal! We had discussed getting engaged for several months, and I was definitely starting to get a bit impatient! Little did I know, but since November 2012, Jared had been planning to surprise me by proposing on his birthday, February 15, 2013. I am a difficult person to surprise, and Jared thought that the only way to pull it off would be to propose on a day when I would be completely focused on him and not expecting anything – thus, his birthday!

Jared’s best friend (and the Best Man in our wedding), Scott, was crucial to the proposal plan. I received a text message one night from Scott asking if I had thought about what I wanted to get Jared for his birthday. I replied that I had been thinking about getting him golf shoes. Scott then responded that he knew exactly which shoes Jared wanted, his shoe size, and even had a coupon to the PGA Superstore. He then offered to purchase them for me.

Over the next month, I could never seem to get a hold of the shoes. Either Scott was traveling on business or he had forgotten the shoes in his car or at work. The week before Jared’s birthday, I still had not even seen the shoes! Scott told me that after getting them “gift wrapped at work” (i.e. Scott wrapping them himself), he would hide them in the back of Jared’s Explorer for me to retrieve later on. Dibble Collage4

Meanwhile, Jared had been planning a big Valentine’s Day weekend in downtown Chicago for us. Since I had to work overnight at the hospital on February 14th, we were planning to celebrate on Friday, February 15th by staying overnight in a hotel downtown and going to dinner at my favorite restaurant, McCormick and Schmick’s. Jared picked me up late Friday afternoon to drive downtown, and somehow, no matter how many times I asked Jared to open his present, he avoided it.

When we arrived at the hotel, I made Jared sit on the couch, set the present in his lap, and told him he had to open it right then. He unwrapped the present, got extremely excited when he saw the golf shoes, and knelt down to “try them on.” I then walked over to the window to look at the river below, and when I turned around, Jared was down on one knee and pulling a ring box out of one of the golf shoes. He then proposed! I was completely blown away.

About an hour after the proposal, as we continued to call all of our closest family and friends, there was a knock at the door. It was my parents! Jared knew how much it would mean to me to share this exciting day with my mom and dad, so he asked them to drive to Chicago for the weekend. The four of us then went out to dinner together. After dinner, we returned to the hotel and had birthday cake that my mom had brought for Jared. It was an incredibly romantic, beautiful moment for Jared and I, and it was filled with the love and support of our families as well. Dibble Collage6

We chose to marry in northern Michigan because Jared and I both have many cherished memories from growing up in northern Michigan, and we have always loved its extraordinary beauty – the blue water of the many lakes, the beaches, the gardens, the forests, parks, the night skies, etc. We deeply appreciate the sense of community, values, and work ethic that smaller, more rural towns tend to offer, and it is still where many of our family and friends live. Growing up in northern Michigan helped shape us into the people we are today, so we could not imagine celebrating our wedding day anywhere else.

Wedding Details

  • “Something Old”: Flowers from the lace sleeves of my mother’s wedding gown were sewn onto the back of my dress to be used as the landmarks for the bustle of my gown.
  • “Something Borrowed”: Tradition of the “Lucky sixpence for your wedding day.” During the wedding ceremony, I walked down the aisle with the same dime and penny in my shoe that Jared’s grandmother, his mother, and his two aunts had worn in their shoes on their wedding days. Jared’s grandma had just passed away last summer, and not only was it an honor to be a part of this tradition, but it was also a beautiful way to incorporate her memory into the day.Dibble Collage5
  • Tradition: “Once upon a time, on her wedding day, it was customary for the bride to place a shiny silver sixpence in her slipper. Good fortune would then be hers, not just for one special moment, but throughout the voyage on the sea of matrimony”
  • “Something Blue”: I wore an aquamarine ring that was passed down to me from my grandmother, Barbara. My middle name is Barbara after her, and the aquamarine represents our March birthdays: Mine on March 20th and hers on March 19th.DibbleCollage8
  • Wedding Invitations: Replica of my parents’ invitation. “This day I will marry my friend. The one I laugh with, live for, dream with, love.” I grew up looking at my parents’ wedding invitation on display in our house, and I have always loved its elegance and beautiful message. It was very important to me to re-create a wedding invitation that would be very similar to theirs.
  • Maple Syrup Table Favors: The syrup was made by Jared’s dad, Lindy, and his Uncle Luke (and their business Mackinac Bluffs) and designed/packaged by his Aunt Lynelle. We actually got to watch the manufacturing process and taste the actual syrup that was used for the table favors. We have a tremendous amount of admiration and respect for the hard work and passion that his dad and uncle have put into building this business. Dibble Collage7
  • Driving Away From The Church In My Dad’s Cadillac XLR: Going to car shows, cruising through town in my dad’s special cars, stick-shift driving lessons with my dad, and having him drive me in one of his cars for the homecoming court parade in high school have been special, meaningful memories and bonding moments that are extremely important to me. Being in one of his cars with the Just Married sign on the back was another special element of the day.Dibble Collage 1

Wedding Ingredients
Ceremony Location: First Congregational United Church of Christ in Charlevoix, MI
Reception Location:Rose Garden Veranda at Stafford’s Perry Hotel
Photographer: Paul Retherford Photography
Cake: Cakes by Phyllis – A four tier classic vanilla cake with homemade raspberry filling, buttercream frosting with coordinating fresh flowers by Bloom
Flowers: Bloom
Centerpieces: Bloom – Bouquets and floral arrangements of peonies, roses, tulips, lisianthus, succulents and seeded eucalyptus
Event Papery/Accessories: Sheila from Tableau Events
Dress: Maggie Stefan Jolie – Bijou Bridal
Color Scheme: Soft tones of pink, peach, caramel, mauve, dusty greens and gray/silver
DJ: Harbor View Entertainment
Videographer: Creative Image
Transportation: Mackinaw Shuttle
Hair Salon: La Dolce Vita
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Wedding Feature: Molly & Craig

Molly & Craig were married in Downtown Petoskey

Molly & Craig were married in Downtown Petoskey

Their Story
Craig and I met while we were working at the Antelope Valley Press newspaper in CA. He was a sports reporter and I was a photographer. We both remember talking for the first time while covering a high school girls soccer game in the rain.

He proposed on a picnic at a local park and had a very sweet speech prepared. We called our families immediately afterwards.

We chose to marry in northern Michigan as my family has a cottage in Bay View and I’ve always thought the area was so beautiful. It was a good meet up point for our families. My family is from Michigan and Craig’s is mostly in Chicago now.Collage 1

Wedding Details

  • We went non-traditional with our wedding party. My brother was the Man of Honor and my best friend, other brother and sister stood up with me. Craig had two friends, his sister and brother-in-law.
  • Our wedding guests took the Noggin Room challenge for us (the Hall of Foam) and drank all the beers on the list to earn a mug. We are going to have Mr. and Mrs. Currier printed on it to commemorate our wedding.
  • While we were planning the wedding in California, Craig got a job as a reporter at the Petoskey News-Review and now we live in the area!Collage 2

Wedding Ingredients
Ceremony Location: Rose Garden Veranda at Stafford’s Perry Hotel
Reception Location: H.O. Rose Dining Room at Stafford’s Perry Hotel
Photographer: Jesse Strigler and Theresa Hoey
Cake: Johan’s Bakery
Flowers & Centerpieces: Flowers from Kegomic
Dress: Panache Bridal Salon
Color Scheme: Spring colors – pinks, light green and whites

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Tying The Knot! Literally!

When it comes to Unity Ceremonies there are endless possibilities!  Apart from the traditional Unity Candle, we’ve compiled a few popular ideas we have seen our couples do.

Sand Ceremonies
A very popular one is a Sand Ceremony. We have seen this done multiple ways. The couple mixes their two sands together; the couple along with the officiant can mix three sands; or the two families can mix multiple sands together.

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Tying the Knot
When tying the knot, most couples opt to use the fishermen’s knot. It’s the strongest knot, the rope will break before the knot comes undone and the knot only gets tighter with pressure, similar to a marriage where it should only get stronger when going through hard times.

Handfasting
Tying the couples hands together symbolizing a binding union. The cords used vary in type, color & length, whatever the couple desires!

Couples Cocktail
The couple creates a cocktail together to symbolize the merging of their lives. It’s often featured as their special drink at their reception, too.

Bread Breaking
After the couple each has a piece of the bread, than they may share with their friends and family to symbolize their unity and future as a family.

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Lock Boxes
This is a new, but very popular idea. Couples lock different mementos in the box to be opened up on a later anniversary. Items may include a bottle of wine, love letters, CD’s, pictures, and any other items that would bring back a smile.

Foot Washing
This ceremony shows a physical commitment of service to your husband or wife. It’s a lovely way to show humility, devotion and complete surrender to your spouse.

Jumping the Broom
Jumping the Broom can symbolize many different things, but the main meaning of the ceremony is the old being “swept away”, and the welcoming of a new beginning!

Do you plan to use these during your special day? Or, did you? Share your story with us at eclub@staffords.com. Find more inspiration on our Pinterest Boards.

Sweet Treats For Your Special Day

 

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More and more we are seeing couples that are looking for ways to personalize their day in order to match their personalities. A lot of the time, this can mean veering away from the traditional wedding cake.

There is an array of possibilities when it comes to choosing desserts.

We have listed out a few of the pros and cons of each, hoping you’ll find the tips helpful!

The most common tends to be Cupcake Towers

  • Pros: Variety of flavors, colors & designs. Towers add instant “décor”
  • Cons: If someone doesn’t like cake, this defeats the purpose of veering from wedding cake

Another popular treat is the Dessert Table

  • Pros: Can offer a large variety of treats, instant “décor,” can be a late night snack
  • Cons: Someone has to be in charge of refilling, once its been dug into, it may no longer add to the décor, if outdoors animals may get into it, if indoors and there are kids attending, it will be an instant attraction. Once it runs out, it either has to be torn down, or it can be an eye sore.

Candy Bar

  • Pros: Acts as wedding favor, fun to incorporate wedding colors & décor
  • Cons: Have to source candy bags, scoops, and something to display the candy in, it can get messy, once it runs out it may hinder décor

Pies

  • Pros: Provides a gluten free option, sometimes lighter than other desserts, often a summertime favorite
  • Cons: Can be very messy, are delicate, not as easy to incorporate your colors/décor

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Fondue

  • Pros: Can have a variety of options to dip, Fountains add to décor, an interactive dessert
  • Cons: Gets very messy, if not using a fountain the pot may hinder décor, can be expensive

Sundae Bar

  • Pros: Can be refreshing on a hot day, variety of toppings and flavors, offers nostalgia
  • Cons: Can melt, can get messy

 

Other Options We Suggest:

Cherries Jubilee/Bananas Foster Station (Available through Stafford’s)

Inn-Baked Mini Sweets (Available through Stafford’s)

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“Shooters”

Cake Pops/Truffles

Fudge Table

Waffle Station

Donuts

Do you have any of these planned for your upcoming celebration? Please share with us! For more inspiration, visit our Pinterest boards.

Wedding Feature: Megan & Keith

Megan & Keith were married in June at Stafford's Perry Hotel in Downtown Petoskey

Megan & Keith were married in June at Stafford’s Perry Hotel in Downtown Petoskey

Their Story

Keith and I were hanging out with a mutual friend in Kalamazoo when we first met. We quickly found we had the same interests and shared many laughs and conversations the evening we met. Keith had asked me for my number and a few days later he called to ask me to go snowboarding – we haven’t stopped dating since!

The day Keith proposed, we were visiting a friend (who was one of our groomsmen) in New York City. We spent the whole day exploring Times Square, Chinatown, Central Park and eating too much pizza! Finally around midnight, we made it to the top of the Empire State Building where Keith got down on one knee and proposed.M&K Details

We chose to marry in northern Michigan as we both grew up in Michigan and love it here. We’ve traveled many places, but nowhere compares to northern Michigan’s beauty and Lake Michigan Sunsets. M&K Details 1

We have so many memories going snowboarding, having beach trips and camping with family and friends in northern Michigan, it seemed fitting to invite everyone here to celebrate our wedding. The Rose Garden Veranda at Stafford’s Perry Hotel was the perfect place to showcase what we love most about Michigan.Details 2

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We chose a Kentucky Derby theme – we take an annual trip with friends each year. We love the history behind the derby and the fun atmosphere!

We added a few details like past derby winners as table names, derby photo props and Mint Juleps as our signature cocktail to go with the theme. Mint Julep

Wedding Ingredients
Ceremony & Reception Location: Rose Garden Veranda at Stafford’s Perry Hotel
Photographer: Paul Retherford Photography
Cake: Assorted Pies from Grand Traverse Pie Company
Flowers: Sky’s the Limit
Centerpieces: Baby’s Breath from Sky’s the Limit
Dress: Maggie Sotorro Larissa
Color Scheme: Blush pink and grey

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Wedding Feature: Natalie & Kevin

Natalie & Kevin marry in downtown Petoskey

Natalie & Kevin marry in downtown Petoskey

Their Story

A mutual friend introduced us at a bar in Birmingham, on a night that we both had no plans to go out but were dragged out by friends – I guess it was meant to be!10441925_10152478431317485_1829470979387358992_n

After months passed, wondering when Kevin was going to propose, I was surprised at when & how he did. We were in St. Joseph’s for his cousins wedding and planned to stay the weekend. Much to my surprise, Saturday morning after breakfast he told me to pack my bags – we’re going to Sagutuck, a place we had wanted to visit for sometime. After riding bikes around town and having lunch on the water, we went back to our hotel where he popped the question (I thought he was having a heart attack)! He got down on his knees and I put out my right hand by mistake. It wasn’t until dinner that I realized it was on the wrong hand.Story Board 3

We chose to marry in northern Michigan because we both wanted to marry on the water. When we saw the venue, we knew instantly it was the one and we cancelled other site visits. We fell in love with the Rose Garden Veranda, the bay views and the unbelievable sunset. Story Board 2

“Our wedding was truly a magical weekend. The weather was perfect. Love filled the air. The mother/son dance was epic – an unexpected choreographed break-out routine set the tone for the night. One of our bridesmaids performed a parody to the “Friends” theme song for Kevin and I. The party continued into the wee hours of the night because no one wanted the party to end. It was perfect!” – Natalie Storyboard 1

Wedding Ingredients
Ceremony & Reception Location: Rose Garden Veranda at Stafford’s Perry Hotel
Photographer: Christopher Belli Photography, LLC
Cake: Simply Sweet by Jessica
Flowers: Petit Fleur
Dress: Matthew Christopher
Color Scheme: White with pops of silver, green & emerald

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Let’s Dance!

Choosing the right songs for special moments at your wedding can be a fun, yet daunting part of your planning process! We asked one of preferred Disc Jockeys, Tom Pluister, his advice on the “Top Songs” to play at a wedding. Here is his favorite list.

Top 5 First Dance Songs
The bride and groom’s first dance is a very special time for the couple and their families. Choosing a song that touches your heart is the most important thing to consider when making this decision.

1. “At Last” by Etta James

2. “When You Say Nothing At All” by Alison Krauss

3. “The Luckiest” by Ben Folds

4. “First Day Of My Life” by Bright Eyes

5. “I’m Yours” (Bass over Babylon Mix) by Jason Mraz

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First Dance on the Rose Garden Veranda – Lizzie Photo

Top 5 Father-Daughter Dance Songs
The father-daughter dance is typically a song of endearment from father to daughter. It’s also one of the hardest choices for a bride and her father to make… to curb emotions on the wedding day, Tom suggests a fun twist: Half way through the slow endearing song, Tom and his staff segue’ abruptly into a quick, fun song and the bride and her father pull out some choreographed dance moves! The guests love it and it brings everything back to celebration mode!

1. “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra

2. “Over The Rainbow” by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

3. “I Loved Her First” by Heartland

4. “Daughter” by Loudon Wainwright III

5. “My Girl” by The Temptations

Father-Daughter Dance  at Stafford's Perry Hotel - Paul Retherford Wedding Photography

Father-Daughter Dance at Stafford’s Perry Hotel – Paul Retherford Wedding Photography

Top 5 Mother-Son Dance Songs
Again, the mother-son dance becomes a difficult choice for many of the same reasons. This formal dance is entirely optional. Many mothers and grooms simply just take a moment together on the dance floor at some time during the night to show their appreciation for one another.

1. “Over The Rainbow” by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

2. “I Hope You Dance” (Single Version) by Lee Ann Womack Featuring Sons of The Desert

3. “What A Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong

4. “In My Life” by The Beatles

5. “Simple Man” (Acoustic Version) by Shinedown

Mother-Son Dance in the H.O. Rose Room at Stafford's Perry Hotel - Dan Johnson Photography

Mother-Son Dance in the H.O. Rose Room at Stafford’s Perry Hotel – Dan Johnson Photography

Top Party Songs
Variety is key to a great wedding celebration. When thinking of dance songs, mix up the genres and eras… good music is timeless. Here are Tom’s favorite Dance Floor Filling tracks!
1. “Respect” by Aretha Franklin

2. “I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie Honey Bunch)” by  The Four Tops

3. “Don’t Stop Believin'” by Journey

4. “Party Rock Anthem” by LMFAO (Featuring Lauren Bennett & GoonRock)

5. “The Way You Make Me Feel” by Michael Jackson

6. “Yeah!” by Usher Featuring Lil Jon & Ludacris

7. “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC

8. “Love Shack” by The B-52’s

9. “Stayin’ Alive” by Bee Gees

10. “Mustang Sally” by  The Commitments

11. “Jump Around” by House Of Pain

12. “Bust A Move” by Young MC

Stafford's Bay View Inn Wedding Reception - RJ Scott Photography

Stafford’s Bay View Inn Wedding Reception – RJ Scott Photography

Who is ready to dance? These are very popular songs amongst our wedding couples at Stafford’s. Did your song make the list?

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